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Monday Mash-Up (Happiness Edition, Vol. 2)

Did you hear that?

What?

That sound.

What sound?

Perhaps it wasn’t a sound. Did you hear that absence of sound?

Are you drunk?

Ha! No. We just spent 20 minutes sitting here not saying a word.

Right. But I didn’t hear anything.

Yes, you did. You heard happiness.

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I often wonder if there will ever be a rule of measurement that I could use to calculate, with precision, every moment that carved its way there. Tracing the depths, I follow the path that hugs itself in merriment. For a moment, the briefest of it’s kind, I allow myself to fall into their grooves and feel their warm embrace, if at all possible, I could live there for eternity. The sound of a breathless chuckle, faint and heartbreakingly authentic, pulls me to awareness. Just in time to see those smiling green eyes, misted with just enough moisture to indicated pure pride, as he watches his children enjoying their own happiness. An infectious smile, stretching carelessly over his entire being asks the same from me, to which I always reply likewise. The ripple effect of happiness, it’s always catching.

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Happiness is a rogue September day lilly. It is a five year old signing “I love you” to Mom and Dad as she walks in to chapel on the day her class performs “What a Wonderful World.”

It is the arrival of your pizza to the table and one more beer. It is the smell of a new bicycle and the sound of it’s virgin tires gathering speed on pavement.

Happiness is putting on your jacket on the first cool evening of fall and finding a crumpled ten dollar bill in the pocket. Happiness is no cavities, donuts on Saturday, the last steps of a two mile run. Happiness is hearing, “You were right.”

It is a goal within reach. A Bulldog touchdown on a foreign campus, an airplane touchdown in a faraway city.

Mostly, I guess, it’s the little things, and taking the time to savor them.

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  • SBG NYC

    ~ Screaming at the kids to “SHUT THE EFF UP” and they start laughing. Pure joy!

    September 18 2012
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    • Jessie Lou

      Happiness is in the little things! The rogue September Daylily – I have 4 or 5 of them and I love it. I love getting my glass of wine on Sunday afternoons and going out to survey my yard and watching who comes by – eventually, my husband will join me with his toddy and we will talk about whatever. This is always followed by steaks on the grill. This is one of my favorite things, especially in the fall and spring.

      September 18 2012
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      • Travellinbaen

        There was an interesting article about happiness a few weeks ago, I think of Huff Post. The author’s premise was that we need to appreciate the things that already make us happy more than we need to continue striving for something that will make us happy. They had done research that had found achieving goals, milestones, etc. did not produce more than a brief period of happiness but that people who knew how to savor what was already in hand were happiest. Or something to that effect. It was a good article.

        September 17 2012
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        • Harmony

          The sound of happiness always falls upon deaf ears. *she types as the kids scream madly as they fight over the dog*

          TB, I like your assortment of happiness..in the end, it is the little things.

          September 17 2012
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